Well put :) Yes, absolutely. The foundation of any healthy relationship is meeting each others' needs. In person, every single person I'd ever talked to about this agrees in a heartbeat ... but as you'd seen, turns out that if you raise this on the internet, various alleged adult women kick up a vast fuss.

I wouldn't go so far as to say "most" women online are like this, but you know how it is, anyone who remains stable and centred and level-headed, male or female, gets out-shouted by the loud people. It's like these particular women either thought they could get away with getting away with cherry-picking the good bits of feminist gender equality, or, it'd genuinely never occurred to them that the whole point of gender equality is that it works both ways. Suddenly they'd found it's their turn to pull their weight ... and they can't handle it. They have a meltdown.

Though in my experience, the vast majority of women aren't like this at all, most are lovely, and will readily acknowledge that in any relationship, both people have wants and needs and standards and boundaries, and each needs to meet the other's needs. Romance at its healthiest. Simple, you'd think, surely? Red-pillers and these various women might disagree, though we all find that just about everyone else would happily agree.