Ugh, 'fraid so. I've found that one of the many things that separate the men from the boys is that men have learned how to reconcile feelings of intense physical attraction to women with also treating these women with decency and respect ... and boys haven't. Like, sure, I'm a man, and also experience these same attraction instincts shared by the men in this article - but I also agree with everything you say here. They're acting like absolute oafs, like they're prisoners or slaves to their libidos. I've had similar conversations with loads of female friends over the years, and the vast majority agree that they've got zero problem with any men around them just simply experiencing attraction to them ... but for God's sake be adults about it.